I live in the middle of Manhattan. Some folks think city living is awful, with cramped apartments, noise, no garden . I miss my own garden, but otherwise it's a trade off for the joy of city living.
Here is what apartment living in a city is like.
1. An apartment house is not a community ; it's a building. I hardly know anyone and few neigbors socialize with each other.
2. Everbody but the bank delivers... supermarket, , wine, store, pharmacy, dry cleaner, you name it. Phone for what you want and magically it arrives. Most services are within walking distance - up the street, down the street or around the corner.
3 You don't take out the garbage. You toss it down a hole (compactor), in a service room on your floor,. leaving recylables in designated boxes.
4 If you live in a serviced building, there is someone to assist with everything. including changing a light bulb. .
5. City folk walk, walk, walk. It's healthier than driving and more interesting. And In NYC, public transportion, by bus, subway or train, gets one all around the city and suburbs.
6. Good hospitals are often in major cities; important when body parts go wrong.
7. Entertainment: Best theatre, opera, concerts of all kinds, movies everywhere, museums and more museums, lectures and adult ed in every neighborhood, all kinds of sports ( spectator and participation), parks, great shopping.
8. The downside? Cost of housing..
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I grew up on a farm in a small small town, and I'll take bright lights and concrete any day now. It is nice to retreat for a holiday home now and then though.
Better oppurtunities are present in the city