Hi. My name is Brian and I've just joined PriorityClub Connect, although I've been a member of Priority Club (Platnum Elite Status) for many years.
Most of the travel I do is business related (I work in the government sector) but I have used my Priority Club Points to take my wife and two children on long weekend trips to Baltimore, Washington DC, Ocean City, MD, Philly, Boston, Montreal and, most frequently, New York City. I live in Albany, New York, which is kind of a hub for cities in the Northeast, so most of our travel is via car, but we have flown via Southwest Airlines to Baltimore/Washington on a couple of occasions ($39 each way).
In the last few years, we haven't traveled as a family because my 10-year-old son, who is autistic, makes too much of a racket in the room, especially at night. He walks around, sometimes jumps up-and-down, yells (not screams but just yells) and generally causes a ruckus. We've had someone complain only once (on Thanksgiving day, after the NYC Parade, 4 years ago), but we never want to ruin anyone elses stay, so we haven't traveled with Will since. We have talked about staying overnight at a local Holiday Inn to get Will used to being away and if we have to leave, we would be 5 minutes from home. I have so many points built up that we can do this several times until (maybe) he feels comfortable and quiet (like at home).
For the past three years my wife and I have been able to get away for an overnight in NYC at Christmas time. My 16-year-old daughter is home with my son, and a 20-some year-old daughter of a good friend stays with the kids. She is a special ed major in college and gets along great with both kids. It has worked out great, although we both miss the kids when we're away. Both my wife and I have made weekend visit's to NYC with my daughter throughout the year. She loves the city as much as we do.
BTW, I have made hundreds of business trips to NYC throughout the years and would recommend to anyone that visit to go in the Christmas season. The store windows are amazing (Lord&Taylor, Sak's and Macy's), the Christmas tree at the Metropolitan Museum of Art and ice skating in Rockefeller Center are our favorite things to do, I would highly recommend them all. There is no more romantic place than NYC at Christmas.
I also recommend that you stay at the Intercontinental (the Barclay). The location is great, 48th and Lex, the staff is very helpful and the rooms are nicely appointed and fairly large by NYC standards.
If anyone has an autistic child and has any suggestions on ways to make traveling easier, I would really appreciate it. Thanks.
Welcome Brian.
May I congratulate you on your up front and openess in your first post. It can't be easy having an autisitic child. I'm sure there will be someone in our merry band of posters who can offer the help and advice that you seek.
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Hi Paul.
It must seem like it would be hard to talk about Will to people I don't know, but it's really not. Will being autisitic has become a part of our everyday life and we love him very much. He loves to laugh and he loves to be with his family. Strangely enough, it all seems very "normal" to us.
Thanks for your support.
Thank you, rubemie. You folks are very friendly, I feel at home already.
Hello and welcome to the club,
I wish you the best with your son, Will, and though I can't give you any advice, my heart goes out to you and your family. In a unique way, the people on this website can be loving, caring, supportive. You'll see.
I am always so happy to hear/read when people who live in other places love NY. I live here and love it. The stores have been decorated fro Christmas so early this year, they didn't even get past Halloween, no less Thanksgiving. I like the Barclay, too and my daughter and family will be staying there (my treat) over the Thanksgiving weekend, Christmas is such a happy, colorful time, though very crowded and vehicular traffic is impossible. The ornamaents on the Met Museum tree are all antique, as is the little village that surrounds the tree. LIncoln Center usually has ornaments that are mucical instruments 'though there is constructions still going on, so I don't know what they will do.
Vanessa:
Have a great Thanksgiving with your family.
Every time I visit, I find another place that I would like to visit with my wife. Last year, on a whim, we made our first visit to the Morgan Library. If it was in any other city besides NY or Washington DC, it would be a premier site. I would recommend it highly to anyone. For the Christmas season they put on display Dickens' original manuascript for A Christmas Carole.
Brian
For folks visiting New York, Brian is spot on with the Morgan. It is a highly subsidized museum ( probaby by the trusts left by JP Morgan and others in the family. In addition to the exhibits, the library is such a treat.. The Morgan is easly walkable from the Barclay (15 minutes)
Other offbeat museums to check are:
Asia Society Park Ave and 70th Street permanent and temporary exhibits , good gift shop
Frick Collection Fifth Ave and 70th (former home of a steel magnate) excellent building and exhibits
Neue Museum - 86th and Fifth Austrian and German artists pre WW2 - changing exhibits, restaurants with fancy desserts, ( Near the Met Museum, the Guggeheim and the Jewish Museums)
New Museum on the Bowery, cutting edge modern stuff
Regrettably it is not like DC with the Smithsonian complex or Berlin with the Island complex, where museums are grouped together.
New York has got art all over the place, sometimes even the grafitti in the subway is art.
Vanessa:
The Frick and the Neue Gallery are two of my favorite museums. I can't think of a better way to spend an hour or so than by have a coffee and strudel at the Cafe Sabarsky. It is in the Neue Gallery, which is only a few blocks from the Met.
As I guess you know most of the British public museums and galleries have no entrance fee.
Hello Brian,
I do not have personal experience with Autisim, but can only imagine the work it requires. A work of love, yet still an enormous amount of energy to keep things running smoothly. I admire your love of family!
There is another post on this site about traveling with an autistic child:
http://community.priorityclub.com/message/3650#3650
One of our bloggers, Amanda has a couple of links with information- they are posted within that thread.
I hope this helps!
Have you ever stayed at the Holiday Inn on the beachfront in Ocean City, MD? We love it there, the grand kids have so much fun in the pool- they don't care about the ocean, but they love the boardwalk activites.
Rick's Family:
The links are very helpful. Thank you.
Brian
Rick's Family:
We have stayed at the OC Holiday Inn on the Boardwalk, on three occasions. It is a great Hotel for families. My family used to go to OC every summer when I was young and I hadn't been there in about fifteen years when I brought my family. The pool with the lazy river is great, and being on the boardwalk makes it perfect for walking or bike riding.
BTW, the first time we planned on going, I called the hotel to make reservations and was told they did not honor Priority Club Points. I called Priority Club and they made the reservation for me. I can't say enough good things about the people at Priority Club.
Brian
welcome to the community!!!
i don't have any knowledge with regards to your son's condition.. maybe one of the member in this community maybe able to help you with that.. i really admire the things that you are doing not only for your son but for your family.. i know many people that do not have the time to spend with their family because of work.. but you showed me that family is more important than anything else..
i know that there will be someone in this community that will be able to help you with your situation and if i hear anything i will share that with you as well.. hopefully, you will be able to spend more time with your whole family going to more places that you would like..
just keep browsing and checking the community and you will find anything you need.. from earning opportunities, ideas from different hotels and places and anything that you need that the community maybe able to help you..
glad to have you on board!!!
Hi Brian ~
I have a nephew who is autistic so I understand what you mean about your son needing to move around. From what I understand each child is different, although I do know my nephew is always walking and moving around also. And yes, sometimes jumping or making noise that some people might not expect. He does need a lot of space... He is almost an adult now.
I'm not sure if this will help, but I thought I'd mention the Staybridge Suites properties in case you have not tried them. Many of their rooms have two bedrooms and two bathrooms, along with the living room and kitchen area. Usually the 2-room style suites are at the end of the hallway. And, with a bottom floor room, there would not be anyone below you to hear anyone jumping.
I wish you the best ~
Hi Brian,
I can emphasize with your position. Did your daughter choose to major in special education because of her experience with your son? As member Rick's Family mentioned, I posted a few links in another thread.
Here is an additional guide that could be useful. It is provided by the Manchester Airport. Have you had the chance to read, The Horse Boy?
Respectfully,
Amanda:
Hi. Thanks for the info. I have not read The Horse Boy, but will look for it. BTW, it is not my daughter that is the special ed major but the daughter of a friend. She stays with my kids overnight when my wife and I can arrange to go away. My daughter, Katie, is unbelievably committed to Will though. We are very lucky to have to have her.
Brian
Brian,
I'm sorry I got that confused..Katie, your daughter, sounds like a wonderful woman. I have a lot of experience & resources at my disposable if you ever would like to chat or email me off the board. A few things I can help you with: recommending additional reading material, answering questions about therapies, and interpreting test results. I can be reached at AmandaKehoe@att.net
I would be happy to help in any way I can. Please don't hesitate to contact me. Stay strong, and keep up the good work!
Respectfully,
